Understand Your Sexuality
Camilla J. J. Sørensen
Video
10 min
00:00:00 Welcome. I want to talk to you about sexuality today. So, the first thing I want to say to you is that you have been told the wrong story your whole life. And the reason why is that society teaches that we should be able to get 20 just by looking at the person. And if that doesn't happen, you might think that am I normal? And if that doesn't happen, you might think that am I normal? You don't feel it like that.
00:00:34 You can think that you're not good enough, there must be something wrong with you, right? But I have to tell you that different desires are normal. You are normal. And genitals can be really fun, but our desire is in the brain. Everything starts in the brain. So today you can forget everything society has taught you. So today you can forget everything society has taught you. Because I know that sex life can be hard when you're trying to have children.
00:01:07 It doesn't need to be that way. So first of all, I want to teach you something about the genitals. And here you see a picture of clitoris and penis. So why doesn't I have a picture of vagina? I'm going to talk about that. Because these parts, the clitoris and the penis give us a lot of pleasure, Because these parts, the clitoris and the penis give us a lot of pleasure, right? So they are also quite similar, but they are organized very differently.
00:01:44 So when you get pregnant, after six weeks, the gender is chosen. And what happens is that the woman has the clitoris the same place as the penis . But not so big, because the woman does not need to pass the DNA into another But not so big, because the woman does not need to pass the DNA into another body. The clitoris is only there for pleasure. It doesn't need to be bigger. So the penis has four functions. The clitoris have just one. That is pleasure.
00:02:18 So the vagina is also important to talk about. It's a muscle tube. And it's also a birth channel. And it's also a birth channel. So what I want to tell you today is that no matter what gender you are, if you connect to the body correctly, if you take your time, the blood will fill your clitoris and the penis and be erected. And the difference is that the both will get erected. But the penis is outside and the clitoris is inside. So you will not see it,
00:02:54 But the penis is outside and the clitoris is inside. So you will not see it, right? And only 20% of women get orgasm when they have penetration sex. Because it's really difficult to get it. Because the clitoris is around the vagina. So the penis is outside. It's easier to see. It's easier to stimulate. So we have to understand where we find our pleasure. We want to have more sex. So we have to understand where we find our pleasure. We want to have more sex.
00:03:36 So I want to talk a little bit about this. So you learn to understand your body a little bit more. So the world teaches us that sex is penetration and that the penis must be inside the vagina. But that is all school. That is not the way it is or how to be. Sex is so much more than that. The body and imagination and the senses are full Sex is so much more than that. The body and imagination and the senses are full of the scarves.
00:04:05 So they're just waiting to be explored. So sex is so much more than this. Doesn't matter what gender you are, sex is so much more. To learn more about the penis, we have around 4000 nerve endings. And the best it knows is to be inside a warm hole or be stimulated. And the glance is heavy at the head of the clitoris. So you have to be really careful. She treated really well. And if you have a penis, the public floor helps you to maintain tensile.
00:04:47 So that is really high recommended for everybody who has penis and also a vagina. So if we're going to talk about the vagina, it does not contain the same nerves So if we're going to talk about the vagina, it does not contain the same nerves as the penis. And this is because the woman would not have survived through the birth if all these nerves have been inside. So the vagina is also a birth channel. Therefore, it can be difficult for many
00:05:16 to have this vaginal orgasm. So this is just the way the body is. That's the reason. And I want to talk about the clitoris. The clitoris is only there because it And I want to talk about the clitoris. The clitoris is only there because it wants to give you pleasure. And it's planted well below the labia. And it's an organ with 10,000 nerve endings. And if you stimulate it more than 15 minutes, the signal to the brain will stop
00:05:57 . It doesn't like that. And it also doesn't need to be stimulated directly. You can use the brain, your imagination, or your skin to get it away. And that is the best way of doing it. So we also have to talk about the human body skin because it's the biggest organ we have. The skin is the largest sensory organ we have. And many people does not know The skin is the largest sensory organ we have. And many people does not know
00:06:32 where you have your organ zones. So if you explore this, it can spark your desire rather than just touch the genitals. And if we're going to talk about the brain, that's the largest sexual organ you have. And it's also there for give you the desire. So it arrives inside here. And it's also there for give you the desire. So it arrives inside here. And it needs to remember what pleasure is for you. And the brain does not need
00:07:07 it to be disturbed. Because then pleasure can be really difficult. So when you are relaxed, when you're calm and you're in your body, the nerve system will not make it so difficult to maintain your pleasure. difficult to maintain your pleasure. So here you see our girl, our happy girl. And what I have to say is that we are all born at this world without shape. And we are all born with sexuality. So when we are born, we are curious and we
00:07:52 're enjoying our bodies. Children play and explore. But unfortunately, the world begins to affect the Children play and explore. But unfortunately, the world begins to affect the kids. We are shaped and shame and guilt can arise. As adults, we can come back here. So if you have some experience from your childhood, and maybe it was not allowed to talk about sexuality, and maybe there were some assaults or you have some trauma, your body will
00:08:25 remember that. So knowledge of what a different desire or can repair this sexual problems So knowledge of what a different desire or can repair this sexual problems because one understands that there is nothing wrong. It has never been anything wrong with you. The reason why you don't contain your desire is because of your blockings. And that is what we're going to talk about today. And I'm also going to teach And that is what we're going to talk about today. And I'm also going to teach
00:09:00 you about that it's two different desires. You have this botanias and responsive. So either way, the both are very normal. So in the end of this video now, I want to say to you and ask you, have you ever felt abnormal? And what makes you think that you have a sexual problem? And what can affect your desire? Write down and we will see each other in the next video. Thank you so much.
