Sexual Discomfort and Pain During Sex? – You’re Not Alone

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00:00:00 Hello, we're going to talk about symptoms of sexual problems in this video. So this can be some symptoms of sexual problems. Maybe you will have lower or absent desire than before. Maybe you will have UT sex, which is that you have sex when you don't want it. It doesn't matter what gender you are. It doesn't matter what gender you are. UT sex is really normal in this situation you might be in. And erection problems is also normal.

00:00:42 And communication problems, it's difficult to communicate really well because it's a new situation in life. And for many people, this situation will be difficult of course. And maybe it will take a lot of time. So the patients will not always be there and that is also normal and then you So the patients will not always be there and that is also normal and then you can get

00:01:06 communication problems. And then many women have pain in vagina and walnut. They have different kinds of pain. And then that of course will affect the sex life. You can have low spark in your life. It's so difficult to be in this situation sometimes. It's so difficult to be in this situation sometimes. So the spark in your life will be low.

00:01:36 Maybe there are some traumas or conflicts and you have some problems in your relationship. Maybe you would draw because that is easier for you than talk about the problems. People are very different about that. And the most most normal and most difficult thing is guilt and shame. So that's really important to talk about. So that's really important to talk about.

00:02:00 And also there might be some illness and mental challenges. And I always say if you have some really big issues and problems, contact your doctor. You have a lot of pain that is really really important. So the dream of children. Sorrow is really central in this. And it's not like this for everybody. And it's not like this for everybody.

00:02:32 But it's really important to talk about sorrow because if you have waited for a long time and your patients, it's low of course. And then you can begin to have sorrow because you don't know if you have that hope anymore. So it doesn't need to be this way. It doesn't need to be this way. But it's really important to talk about because many people start to have this

00:02:57 sorrow without them knowing it. And if you have this sorrow, you will have other problems in your relationship And if you have this sorrow, you will have other problems in your relationship if you don't talk about it. So I recommend always to talk about these kind of feelings you have with a therapist.

00:03:14 And if you have a partner talk to a partner and also your doctor. Because the most important thing about when you're starting to have these feelings is to talk about them. to talk about them. So for couples who are trying to have children or have been together for a long time, habits are often central in their sex life.

00:03:41 People begin to have patterns because that's the way we are. We are humans and we are always stuck in patterns. And it's very normal that one of the person in this relationship, if you have a partner, it will be the same person who seduces you each time. it will be the same person who seduces you each time. So the problem with this is that it stops the opportunity to play together and find out

00:04:12 what you actually like. So, and if this is the case that for a period you are now, you will not feel so much desire as before. And don't worry because if you have lack of desire, it will come back and it's And don't worry because if you have lack of desire, it will come back and it's really normal and we will work on that.

00:04:38 So now we're going to talk about the key. How to understand yourself and your sexuality contains in your brain. And in your brain, you have some buttons. I just want to talk about buttons because it's easier to make you understand. I just want to talk about buttons because it's easier to make you understand. So you must learn your arms and abs in your brain. So we have one on and two abs. So the on is always there but it's really normal to have two abs and it lays on

00:05:16 your desire. So when you understand this, you will get to know how to get back the desire. So if it's really often that stress and the way you look at your body and some So if it's really often that stress and the way you look at your body and some traumas maybe or your relationship problems will affect these buttons. So if you have some problems in your life, these buttons will push on your arm

00:05:47 and then you will not feel your desire, right? So what I'm going to ask you now is to give you a reflection task and I want you to write down with the answer. down with the answer. So have you ever experienced that this may have affect your sex life before? Stress, body image, trauma or relationships problems or maybe some pain?

00:06:15 Write down. How does that affect your sex life? So what happens and when was it? Write also down that.

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[00:00:00] Hello, we're going to talk about symptoms of sexual problems in this video. So this can be some symptoms of sexual problems. Maybe you will have lower or absent desire than before. Maybe you will have UT sex, which is that you have sex when you don't want it. It doesn't matter what gender you are. It doesn't matter what gender you are. UT sex is really normal in this situation you might be in. And erection problems is also normal. [00:00:42] And communication problems, it's difficult to communicate really well because it's a new situation in life. And for many people, this situation will be difficult of course. And maybe it will take a lot of time. So the patients will not always be there and that is also normal and then you So the patients will not always be there and that is also normal and then you can get [00:01:06] communication problems. And then many women have pain in vagina and walnut. They have different kinds of pain. And then that of course will affect the sex life. You can have low spark in your life. It's so difficult to be in this situation sometimes. It's so difficult to be in this situation sometimes. So the spark in your life will be low. [00:01:36] Maybe there are some traumas or conflicts and you have some problems in your relationship. Maybe you would draw because that is easier for you than talk about the problems. People are very different about that. And the most most normal and most difficult thing is guilt and shame. So that's really important to talk about. So that's really important to talk about. [00:02:00] And also there might be some illness and mental challenges. And I always say if you have some really big issues and problems, contact your doctor. You have a lot of pain that is really really important. So the dream of children. Sorrow is really central in this. And it's not like this for everybody. And it's not like this for everybody. [00:02:32] But it's really important to talk about sorrow because if you have waited for a long time and your patients, it's low of course. And then you can begin to have sorrow because you don't know if you have that hope anymore. So it doesn't need to be this way. It doesn't need to be this way. But it's really important to talk about because many people start to have this [00:02:57] sorrow without them knowing it. And if you have this sorrow, you will have other problems in your relationship And if you have this sorrow, you will have other problems in your relationship if you don't talk about it. So I recommend always to talk about these kind of feelings you have with a therapist. [00:03:14] And if you have a partner talk to a partner and also your doctor. Because the most important thing about when you're starting to have these feelings is to talk about them. to talk about them. So for couples who are trying to have children or have been together for a long time, habits are often central in their sex life. [00:03:41] People begin to have patterns because that's the way we are. We are humans and we are always stuck in patterns. And it's very normal that one of the person in this relationship, if you have a partner, it will be the same person who seduces you each time. it will be the same person who seduces you each time. So the problem with this is that it stops the opportunity to play together and find out [00:04:12] what you actually like. So, and if this is the case that for a period you are now, you will not feel so much desire as before. And don't worry because if you have lack of desire, it will come back and it's And don't worry because if you have lack of desire, it will come back and it's really normal and we will work on that. [00:04:38] So now we're going to talk about the key. How to understand yourself and your sexuality contains in your brain. And in your brain, you have some buttons. I just want to talk about buttons because it's easier to make you understand. I just want to talk about buttons because it's easier to make you understand. So you must learn your arms and abs in your brain. So we have one on and two abs. So the on is always there but it's really normal to have two abs and it lays on [00:05:16] your desire. So when you understand this, you will get to know how to get back the desire. So if it's really often that stress and the way you look at your body and some So if it's really often that stress and the way you look at your body and some traumas maybe or your relationship problems will affect these buttons. So if you have some problems in your life, these buttons will push on your arm [00:05:47] and then you will not feel your desire, right? So what I'm going to ask you now is to give you a reflection task and I want you to write down with the answer. down with the answer. So have you ever experienced that this may have affect your sex life before? Stress, body image, trauma or relationships problems or maybe some pain? [00:06:15] Write down. How does that affect your sex life? So what happens and when was it? Write also down that.