

When sleep problems persist, it’s easy to assume that something is fundamentally wrong with your ability to sleep. Many people begin to view themselves as “bad sleepers” or believe their sleep system is broken. In reality, sleep is a complex biological process that is highly sensitive to what happens during the day and evening.
Sleep disruption is often the result of multiple small factors adding up rather than a single issue. The body relies on consistency, environmental cues, and a sense of safety to transition into rest. When those signals are disrupted, sleep can become fragmented, delayed, or unrefreshing.
Quick Answer: Sleep disruption often has less to do with the sleep system itself and more to do with daily habits that interfere with the body’s natural sleep–wake cycle. Inconsistent sleep schedules, poorly timed light exposure, and unmanaged stress are among the most common causes of sleep problems. Addressing these factors can significantly improve both sleep quality and daytime energy.
This article explores the most common causes of sleep disruption, why sleep problems are often rooted outside the bedroom, and how simple, practical adjustments can help restore healthier sleep patterns.
Sleep disruption refers to difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking feeling restored. It can also include shifts in sleep timing that leave you feeling out of sync, even if you are technically getting enough hours of rest.
Common signs of sleep disruption include:
These sleep problems often fluctuate depending on lifestyle, stress levels, and daily routines.
Sleep does not operate like a switch that can simply be turned on at bedtime. It is a gradual process that depends on signals the body receives throughout the entire day.
Factors such as light exposure, routine, stress, and activity levels all influence how ready the body feels for sleep. When these signals are misaligned, sleep problems can develop even if bedtime habits seem reasonable.
The encouraging part is that this means sleep disruption is often changeable. By identifying and adjusting the factors that interfere with sleep, better rest usually follows.
One of the most common causes of sleep disruption is an inconsistent sleep schedule. This often shows up as going to bed and waking up at different times during the week compared to weekends.
This pattern is sometimes described as social jet lag. The body becomes confused when sleep and wake times shift back and forth, much like traveling across time zones every weekend.
For example:
When sleep timing changes frequently, the circadian rhythm and sleep pressure can become misaligned, making it harder to fall asleep and wake feeling rested.
The circadian rhythm is the body’s internal clock. It relies on consistency to function well. When bedtimes and wake times vary significantly, this clock struggles to keep pace.
An inconsistent schedule can lead to:
If only one change is made, anchoring the wake-up time is often the most effective starting point. Waking at the same time each day helps the body build enough sleep pressure to support earlier, more consistent sleep onset.
Even after a poor night’s sleep, keeping the wake time consistent can help restore balance the following night.
Light plays a powerful role in regulating the sleep–wake cycle. Both natural and artificial light send signals to the brain about whether it is time to be alert or prepare for rest.
When light exposure is mistimed, sleep disruption can occur.
Bright light during the day helps signal wakefulness and supports energy, mood, and alertness. Without enough daytime light exposure, the brain may not receive strong cues to stay awake, leading to sluggishness and fatigue.
Helpful daytime light habits include:
Natural light is especially effective because it provides the full light spectrum needed to support circadian rhythm regulation.
In the evening, the body needs the opposite signal. Exposure to bright or blue-weighted light late in the day can interfere with melatonin production, a hormone that supports sleep.
Sources of evening light exposure include:
While emerging research suggests that blue light alone may not fully disrupt circadian rhythm, the combination of light exposure, stimulating content, and extended screen time can delay bedtime and make it harder to unwind.
Reducing screen use 30 to 60 minutes before bed can help the body transition into rest more smoothly.
Stress is one of the most significant contributors to sleep problems. When stress levels remain high into the evening, the body may struggle to shift into a state that allows sleep.
Cortisol, the body’s primary stress hormone, is meant to be highest in the morning and lower at night. When stress causes cortisol to rise in the evening, the body may remain in a state of alertness.
Signs that stress is affecting sleep include:
These are signs that the nervous system is in fight-or-flight mode rather than rest-and-relax mode.
Cortisol is not inherently bad. It plays an important role in motivation, alertness, and energy during the day. The issue arises when cortisol remains elevated at night.
When the body is in a stress response:
These changes are incompatible with sleep. To fall asleep, the nervous system must shift into a calmer, parasympathetic state.
Sleep is a transition, not an instant event. Moving directly from a busy, stimulating day into bed can make it difficult for the body and mind to settle.
Many people remain mentally active until the moment they turn out the lights. When the environment becomes quiet, unprocessed thoughts often surface, leading to rumination and delayed sleep.
Creating a buffer between daytime activity and bedtime allows stress to settle gradually.
A consistent bedtime routine sends clear signals to the brain that sleep is approaching. This routine does not need to be rigid or elaborate, but it should be predictable and calming.
A supportive wind-down routine may include:
The routine itself becomes a cue for relaxation over time.
Reducing stress earlier in the day can improve nighttime sleep, but evening practices also matter.
Helpful strategies include:
Writing thoughts down can be particularly helpful for those who ruminate at night. The brain often interprets this as permission to let those thoughts rest.
Protecting the evening hours from unnecessary stimulation can make a noticeable difference in sleep quality.
This may involve:
Movement during the day, such as walking or gentle exercise, can also support mood regulation and reduce stress that might otherwise surface at bedtime.
Sleep and stress have a two-way relationship. Poor sleep makes stress harder to manage, and unmanaged stress makes sleep harder to achieve.
Improving one often supports the other. This is why addressing sleep disruption holistically tends to be more effective than focusing on sleep alone.
Sleep disruption is rarely random. Inconsistent schedules, mistimed light exposure, and elevated stress levels are among the most common contributors to ongoing sleep problems.
The good news is that these factors are adjustable. By supporting the body’s natural rhythms, creating consistent routines, and allowing time to wind down, sleep quality can improve steadily.
Better sleep does not usually come from forcing rest, but from creating the conditions that allow it to happen naturally.
00:00:00 What's getting in the way of your sleep? Sleep is complex and there are so many potential factors that may be influencing your ability to sleep and sleep well. I always tell my clients that it's often not their sleep system itself that's the issue. Rather, there are a number of other factors that are going on in their lives that are
00:00:21 impacting their sleep, but once we tease out and address those root causes, better sleep usually follows. I consider that really great news because it means that you have the ability to I consider that really great news because it means that you have the ability to change your sleep for the better. While sleep issues should always be examined holistically and treated on an
00:00:41 individualized level, I want to share with you some of the top three most common sleep disrupt ors I see when I'm working with my clients. Then, I'm going to offer you some really practical evidence-based tips that are going to improve both your nighttime sleep and your daytime energy levels. both your nighttime sleep and your daytime energy levels.
00:01:05 Having an inconsistent or changing sleep schedule has a big impact on sleep. As a society, a lot of us are suffering from something called social jet lag, which means we're keeping a somewhat regular wake and sleep schedule during workdays but completely change it up on the free days. For example, we might wake up Monday to Friday at 7am and go to bed around 10 at night, but
00:01:29 then the weekend rolls around and we go to bed at midnight and sleep in until then the weekend rolls around and we go to bed at midnight and sleep in until 10. As a result, we may find it hard to fall asleep on Sunday night and feel refreshed on Monday morning. That's because when you're not following a consistent routine, which includes when
00:01:46 you go to sleep and when you wake up, your circadian rhythm and sleep pressure get all out of whack and this can impact your sleep for the worse. So my first piece of advice is try to go to bed and wake up at around the same So my first piece of advice is try to go to bed and wake up at around the same time each day, seven days a week, ideally keeping bedtimes and wake times within about an hour of each
00:02:10 other. If you had to pick one to start, waking up at the same time each day will make the biggest difference and that's because if you're anchoring your wake time, your body will eventually come to anticipate sleep and get tired around the same time each night. Even if you had a terrible night sleep the night before and didn't fall asleep Even if you had a terrible night sleep the night before and didn't fall asleep
00:02:31 until 2am, try and keep that alarm set for the same time. Because here's what's going to happen. Yes, you may be tired that day and may feel a bit grumpy and not acting your best self, but first of all, you've had days like these before, you can get through it and you should be rewarded with good sleep the following night because that sleep pressure is
00:02:54 so high from your lack of sleep the night before. from your lack of sleep the night before. Sleep disruptor number two, incorrectly timed light exposure. Light plays a huge role in your sleep wake cycle. Consider the light, both natural sunlight and artificial sources, so things like TVs, phones, and LED lights can affect an altar when you feel sleepy and when you feel alert
00:03:23 . When light hits your eyes, it sends a message to your brain to wake up and your body starts to release these alerting and mood boosting hormones and chemicals. to release these alerting and mood boosting hormones and chemicals. But if you're not getting enough bright light during the day, those alerting messages don't get sent and you may feel sluggish and fatigued.
00:03:41 Now, if you're exposed to too much bright light in the evening before bed or in the middle of the night, especially ones that have strong blue light signals, this may trick your body into thinking it's daytime and it might suppress the production of melatonin, which is a sleep hormone, making it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep. which is a sleep hormone, making it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep.
00:04:03 So one of the most impactful changes you can make in terms of resetting your sleep is managing your light exposure. If you're listening in the morning or closely after you wake up, try and get 15 to 30 minutes of natural outdoor light. Take off those sunglasses as they will block some of that important light spectrum that
00:04:22 you actually want during the day. But I recognize that it's not always realistic to get outside first thing, so even eating even eating breakfast in front of a bright window or blasting the lights on in your home will help and even getting outside within a couple hours of waking is beneficial. Try and get outside for another 15 to 30 minutes around lunch or really anytime
00:04:46 throughout the day. That light is going to help keep you energized and happy. In the evening, however, you want to think about limiting your bright light exposure. If you can put lights on dimmers or use lamps or candles, that's great. If you can put lights on dimmers or use lamps or candles, that's great. One better is to think about maybe putting away your screens or other devices
00:05:06 that give off blue light approximately 30 to 60 minutes before bed. Emerging research is showing that while the blue light from our devices may not have a strong in effect on an individual circadian rhythm as we once thought, the content of what we're watching and the time spent on our devices may be overactivating and further
00:05:29 delay our bedtime. delay our bedtime. The last sleep disruptor I want to talk about is stress and anxiety, and this is a big one. A common issue for people who have trouble falling asleep is that their cortisol levels are too high at night. Now cortisol is a stress hormone and it gets a bad rap, but it's not all bad.
00:05:51 We need cortisol during the day, especially in the morning. It helps get us out of bed, motivates us and keeps us alert. But for example, if your mind is racing about all the things you need to get But for example, if your mind is racing about all the things you need to get done tomorrow or you're thinking about an argument that happened with a friend earlier in the day, your stress hormones may rise, which causes physiological changes in your body.
00:06:16 Your heartbeat quickens, your breath becomes shallower, your digestion slows down, your muscles become very tense, your body temperature rises, and it can become really difficult to think clearly and relax. to think clearly and relax. Essentially, your body has gone into the fight or flight mode, and to fall asleep, you actually
00:06:36 need your body to be in the exact opposite state. You need to activate the rest and relax part of your nervous system, so elevated cortisol levels and stress can make it really difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep. Related to this is what you're doing or not doing in those minutes or hours before you go to sleep. So many people I work with race through the days, taking off the boxes, not
00:06:57 So many people I work with race through the days, taking off the boxes, not really taking time to process their thoughts or feelings, and then they're either doing work, watching TV or on their devices until lights out. They're in their bed then and they're physically exhausted, but then there's this backlash of thinking.
00:07:19 Their mind is racing about future worries and they might be thinking about past events and they can't shut it off. Do you relate to this at all? Well, I need to tell you that sleep does not operate on an on/off switch. Well, I need to tell you that sleep does not operate on an on/off switch. It is a transitionary activity, and our brains and bodies need signals to help us transition
00:07:39 to sleep, and if we don't allow ourselves time to process our stress from the day and wind down, it may become difficult to either fall asleep or stay asleep. It's important to reduce your stress levels on a day-to-day basis by finding ways to relax your mind and body. Sleep and stress have this two-way relationship. Sleep and stress have this two-way relationship.
00:08:03 Quality sleep helps lower our stress levels and increases our ability to handle stress, but stress can stop you from sleeping. And if you're stressed in the daytime, it can absolutely creep into your nights . So creating a buffer zone between your busy day-to-day activities and sleep is really important.
00:08:23 I know some of you may have been squirming when I mentioned the possibility of eliminating devices that emit blue light just before bedtime, and you're probably thinking devices that emit blue light just before bedtime, and you're probably thinking now, "You've taken away my TikTok, my Instagram scrolling and messaging, my online shopping, what am I supposed to do for that time before bed?"
00:08:43 Well, create a relaxing, repetitive, and consistent bedtime routine. This can be anywhere between about 20 to 60 minutes long. Choose activities that are relaxing and not particularly stimulating. This may be folding laundry or tidying, listening to music or a podcast, This may be folding laundry or tidying, listening to music or a podcast, watching an old rerun of your favorite show, cooking, stretching, whatever you choose, try and make sure that
00:09:10 you do the same activities at around the same time each day because that wind- down routine is sending an important message to your brain and body to anticipate sleep and relax. There are so many things you can do to manage your stress levels in the day or in the evening hours before bed. Deep, diaphragmatic breathing exercises help calm your nervous system by
00:09:29 Deep, diaphragmatic breathing exercises help calm your nervous system by sending a message to your brain and body that you're safe and you can relax. This can be practiced when you're in an anxious state or just by making it part of your everyday routine. Meditation, mindfulness, or guided imagery are other methods that often include breathwork.
00:09:52 Even taking a couple of minutes a day for what I call a daily pause where you unplug from it all and close your eyes can be restful and restorative. it all and close your eyes can be restful and restorative. Some people like having a bath in the evenings and may add some essential oils such as lavender, which can be relaxing and calming to your nervous system. Talking to a friend or loved one can be a calming activity as well, but try to
00:10:18 avoid talking about stressful or very serious things before bedtime. Now, obviously, you can't control that all the time, but you really want to create this safe, calm bubble around your nights and keep them protected from anything that safe, calm bubble around your nights and keep them protected from anything that may wake up your brain.
00:10:36 Taking forms of movement and physical activity such as yoga, cardio, and walking in nature can help regulate your mood, relax you, and can have a positive impact on sleep . Journaling or writing things down is this technique I offer a lot to those people who have a racing mind or who tend to ruminate at night. It can be a really great way to remove some of those busy thoughts they have
00:10:58 It can be a really great way to remove some of those busy thoughts they have that keep them awake. There's something that happens in your brain when you write your thoughts and worries down. It learns that they've been parked there for the day, and then it allows your mind to be in a more conducive space for sleep.
00:11:20 My Wind Down routine starts with a nightly timer that goes off at 10pm. At that time, I stop watching all of my trashy reality TV shows. At that time, I stop watching all of my trashy reality TV shows. I turn my computer off and I put my phone on silent. Sometimes I need to remind my husband not to talk to me about anything serious or even exciting because I know it's just going to light up my brain and I want my mind to be
00:11:47 in a really relaxed state at this time. Then I go upstairs, I brush my teeth, wash my face, put on my pajamas, and I'll do a little tidy of my bedroom. Next, I do some deep diaphragmatic breathing exercises, but only for a few Next, I do some deep diaphragmatic breathing exercises, but only for a few minutes. My favorites are the 478 technique and the box breathing method.
00:12:10 Finally, I lie down in my bed and I'll read a book or a magazine until I feel sleepy. But everyone unwinds and relaxes in a different way, so there's really no one size fits all approach. When I develop a Wind Down routine with my clients though, I like to make it really personalized for them.
00:12:29 for them. And so I'll help them break down that time period into specific ordered activities for them to follow. If you're looking for any more information on sleep, check out my video on top sleep myths where I set the record straight and sort out fact from fiction. [BLANK_AUDIO]